How to become a Catholic Nun?
Did you ever
wonder how to follow the call of God in
becoming a Canoness Nun?
Do you know
where to begin and how to begin in entering religious life?
Our intentions here is to help you in your desire to follow the call of God
calling you from the deepest chamber of your heart. As you move forward in
searching religious communities, ask spiritual direction from a catholic priest
who can give you some specific idea about the peculiar charism of the
communities.
How to become a Religious Nun?
1. Pray
The most important thing you need is
PRAY. Pray that God is the very center of your desire and there’s no other intersts except to serve Him and to be a co savior of saving souls.
Pray that God’s invitation will be your
innermost desire in entering a deepest
and intimate relationship you wanted to discover in your quest in following His
call.
God calls you. You are called right here,
right now to draw more closer to God everyday of your life.
Be open to the voice of the Lord, no
matter how you feel difficult to leave everything to follow Him, even the
difficulty to left behind your family, Friends, works, ect.
Be faithful in praying. Let the will of
God be done in your life no matter what you encounter on the way. Review your
day and ask the Lord’s grace and strength to help you do His Will in your daily
activities. Pray the Holy Rosary, that the Blessed Virgin Mary guides you
towards following and imitating Her Only Begotten Son.
Read the Scripture. Here are some
Biblical stories how God called them and how they responded:
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Mary (Luke 1: 26 – 38)
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Ruth (Ruth 1: 15- 18)
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Samuel (1 Samuel 3: 1- 21)
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Isaiah (Isaiah 6: 1- 10; 49: 1- 6)
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Paul ( Acts of the Apostles 9: 1-19)
Look at yourself in the story: How God
called you? How would like to respond? How God speaking in you?
2. Meet Nuns
Do you know some of the nuns? Do you
know us? Getting to know the nuns personally is a very important step in
becoming a nun because each one is an example of how to live religious life
"for real".
What are some ways you can interact with nuns?
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attend Mass or a prayer service at a
religious community's convent
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go on retreat held by or led by nuns
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get a spiritual director who is a nun
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attend an event at which there is likely
to be a high population of nuns
3. Talk with a Mentor
There's nothing like saying something
out loud to make it really real! So start talking to trusted people about your
attraction to religious life. These mentors could be family or friends. You
might have a dear aunt or a close cousin that you can share you thoughts
without fear of being discouraged. Talk with friends whom you know that will be
supportive of you while you explore religious life and this feeling of being
called to become a nun.
You may also consider talking with someone like a nun or a priest or a
chaplain. There are many leaders in parishes and schools that are there to
listen and encourage you on your spiritual journey. A more intense way of doing
this is by looking into spiritual direction. A spiritual director
is someone who is trained to help you discern, think, and pray about how God is
moving in your life. Most are familiar with religious life (many in fact are
religious) and can be great mentors and sounding boards as you consider where you
are and where you are going.
4. Contact a Religious Community
You'll know when it's the right time for
you to move from learning about nuns and religious life to formally exploring
religious life with a specific community. It can be a leap of faith making this
transition, but remember, just because you contact a religious community
doesn't mean you are signed up for life. Religious communities know that it can
take a while for people to get to know them and religious life in general. They
welcome you where you are at and are there to help you discern if God is
calling you to their particular community.
So how do you do contact a religious community? If you know a nun in the
community you are attracted to, ask her. She'll be a good companion (if you
want her to) along the way and will introduce you to the Vocation Director and
other sisters if you so desire. If you don't know a nun personally in the
community, contact the Vocation Directress of the community directly. You can
find her name and contact info on the community's website. You can also contact
the Vocations Office in your diocese.
5. Work with the Vocation Director
The vocation director of a particular
religious community is the official person who helps you to get to know
the community and to discern God's call in your life. The Vocation Director is
a member of the community that you are considering joining. Her job is to help
you get to know the community and to help the community get to know you. She'll
be the one that leads you through all the formal steps of becoming a nun within
that particular religious community. While you are relating with the vocation
director, you are not under any obligation to stay with that community. You may
decide to look into other communities or to date someone. Don't be afraid to do
this. Explore and experience the things you need to in order to find out if
religious life with a particular community is for you. Vocation directors are
very understanding of this and know that it is a normal part of discerning.
Some things that you might do as
you work with a vocation director:
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meet regularly in person or by phone
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attend a vocation retreat with other
women that the vocation director is working with
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go to the sisters' community events such
as Mass, particular meetings or workshops just for the sisters, etc.
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learn about the community's charism,
spirituality, history, and mission
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visit organizations and ministries
sponsored by the community
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attend vocation-oriented events within
the diocese
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help her get to know you by having her
visit your school or job or taking her to your favorite hang-outs
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discuss religious life and the vows
When you and the vocation director are ready to officially move forward
with your desire to join the community, you'll probably move more into working
on the formal steps for joining the community:
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address the practical requirements to
enter the community (Canon Law, finances, property, psychological and physical
assessments, etc.)
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envision your transition into the
community (when, where, how)
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formally meet with other members of the
vocation team and with the congregational leader
The vocation director will lead you through all of these things and is
there as your advocate. She's there to encourage you, challenge you, and pray
with you. Although she is the official link to the community, you are
encouraged to befriend others in the community.
6. Join the Community
Once you and the community have
discerned that yes, in fact, God is calling you to one another, you go through
the formal steps of joining. These include:
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Aspirancy
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Postulancy
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Investiture/Novitiate
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Profession of Temporal Vows
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Profession of Solemn Vows